First some background, from a post I wrote on 30 November 2010:
Yesterday, listening to an NPR report on the DoD’s Don’t Ask/Don’t Tell survey of military personnel, it hit me that if gays are permitted to openly serve, the thorny issue of same-sex marriage will soon follow.
I probably don’t know what I’m talking about, but I don’t believe federal civil service employees can claim benefits for spouses unless they’re legally married. Six states currently allow and recognize gay marriages. That suggests to me that the same-sex spouse of a federal employee who was legally married in, say, Massachusetts, would be eligible for benefits, but that the domestic partner of a federal employee from Illinois, where gay marriage is still illegal, would not be.
Would it work that way in the military? You can have a same-sex spouse . . . and all the benefits other married couples receive in the military, which are many . . . but only if you were legally married in one of the six states that allow gay marriage? What if you were legally married in Massachusetts but are now posted to a military base in Illinois? What if you are posted overseas to a country that persecutes gays?*
And if the military does allow gays to openly serve (however this may come about, through congressional action, executive order, or a unilateral move by the DoD itself), it will inevitably permit at least some gay members to marry and claim benefits for their spouses. Will this help move things along in the 44 states where gay marriage is still illegal? Or will it put pressure on the president, the congress, or the courts to override state laws and declare same-sex marriage legal across the land? One place to look would be the racial integration of the military back in the late 1940s. Did the integration of the military change things in any of the states where segregation was still practiced? No. Did the federal government finally override state laws and make segregation illegal? Yes.
The more I think about it, the more I realize how big a deal repealing DADT is going to be.
Of course, the really big deal, at least to John McCain and his pals, is what happens when same-sex couples start showing up at NCO and officers’ clubs . . . holy shit! Truly the end times are upon us.
Well, John McCain, you’d better go to battle stations, ’cause those torpedoey-lookin’ streaks coming across the water toward your bow? You guessed it! From today’s news: Navy chaplains cleared to perform gay marriages!
Damn, it’s nice to be right once in a while!