{"id":9917,"date":"2012-05-13T09:20:02","date_gmt":"2012-05-13T16:20:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/?p=9917"},"modified":"2012-05-13T09:20:51","modified_gmt":"2012-05-13T16:20:51","slug":"things-i-wrestle-with","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/?p=9917","title":{"rendered":"Things I Wrestle With"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Here, for Mother&#8217;s Day, a short and self-indulgent list of concerns:<\/p>\n<p>Suspending hashing for the summer. \u00a0Several years ago I founded a small family hare &amp; hounds running group. \u00a0Starting three years ago, we quit setting trail during the hottest months of summer. \u00a0It was too hard to find volunteers to lay trail in 100+ degree heat, and even when we did find a hare only one or two diehards would show up. \u00a0So &#8230; here it is May. \u00a0There&#8217;s a hash later this morning, and the forecast is for 100 degrees. \u00a0Should I try to recruit a hare for June, making next month&#8217;s trail the last before the summer hiatus, or should I just call the finish today?<\/p>\n<p>I always feel guilty when I don&#8217;t finish a book I&#8217;ve started. \u00a0Last night I gave up on a fantasy novel 200 pages in, with 200 more to go. \u00a0Nevertheless, I wrote a thoughtful review. \u00a0Why? \u00a0Why does this bother me so? \u00a0There are some things I am just not interested in, and fantasy is one of them.<\/p>\n<p>I order movies on DVD from Netflix and review almost all of them. \u00a0There are movies I would never knowingly watch; occasionally I misread a Netflix blurb and order one. \u00a0Within the first five minutes I realize my mistake and eject it. \u00a0As with the books, I feel as if I should write a review, even if it&#8217;s only one sentence long. \u00a0In cases where I feel Netflix deliberately misleads its customers to get them to order certain DVDs, I think I&#8217;m right to write a short review and call Netflix out for false advertising. \u00a0But sometimes the mistake is entirely mine. \u00a0Should I just ignore the movie? \u00a0Probably, but it&#8217;s hard. \u00a0I see myself becoming obsessive and compulsive about writing reviews of books and movies.<\/p>\n<p>I took the project bike in to the Ducati dealer Friday. \u00a0He&#8217;ll get it running again, and though it won&#8217;t be cheap I should still be able to sell the motorcycle and come out ahead. \u00a0But my daughter wants it. \u00a0She doesn&#8217;t have a car and can&#8217;t afford one. \u00a0She could, though, pay me back for the repairs, and I told her she could use it if she does. \u00a0She wants to use it for daily transportation to &amp; from school and work. \u00a0That&#8217;s a lot of exposure, and Polly has no motorcycling experience. \u00a0I&#8217;m worried; Donna even more so. \u00a0Yeah, yeah, people all over the world ride motorcycles and motorbikes for transportation, and it&#8217;s dangerous everywhere. \u00a0Still, given Polly&#8217;s lack of experience I&#8217;d feel better if the Ducati at least had ABS brakes &#8230; maybe I should sell it and help Polly find a motorbike or scooter that does have ABS.<\/p>\n<p>I have three blogs (and three separate Twitter accounts) for three identities: the everyday me, the hasher, and the cook. \u00a0There&#8217;s not much bleed-through (true, I did lead off this post with a reference to hashing, but I don&#8217;t do it often). \u00a0On Facebook, though, I make do with one identity, probably because that&#8217;s how everyone else does it there, or at least my fellow hashers. \u00a0I don&#8217;t know about the cooks.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/dad-and-mom_11.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-9922\" title=\"dad and mom_1\" src=\"http:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/dad-and-mom_11-244x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"244\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/dad-and-mom_11-244x300.jpg 244w, https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/dad-and-mom_11-367x450.jpg 367w, https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/dad-and-mom_11.jpg 1192w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 244px) 100vw, 244px\" \/><\/a>That&#8217;s my mom there, and my dad of course. \u00a0I&#8217;m the one in my mother&#8217;s lap. \u00a0Mom died a long time ago but my sisters and I think of her all the time. \u00a0She was happy, and funny, and wasn&#8217;t afraid of lizards or snakes, and no one could possibly have had a better mother. \u00a0She was the rock our family rested on.<\/p>\n<p>A long-forgotten friend from junior high school found me through Facebook a couple of months ago; after saying hi the first person he asked about was my mother. \u00a0She had that effect on people.<\/p>\n<p>I was lucky enough to find a girl like mom, and she is the rock our family is founded on. \u00a0She&#8217;s in Las Vegas this weekend, watching our granddaughter Taylor&#8217;s last high school fast-pitch games, attending our grandson Quentin&#8217;s first communion. \u00a0I wish she was here, but she has momly obligations, and she doesn&#8217;t stint on those.<\/p>\n<p>Well. \u00a0Happy mother&#8217;s day.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here, for Mother&#8217;s Day, a short and self-indulgent list of concerns: Suspending hashing for the summer. \u00a0Several years ago I founded a small family hare &amp; hounds running group. \u00a0Starting three years ago, we quit setting trail during the hottest months of summer. \u00a0It was too hard to find volunteers to lay trail in 100+ [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[780],"class_list":["post-9917","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal","tag-mothers-day"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9917","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9917"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9917\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9924,"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9917\/revisions\/9924"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9917"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9917"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9917"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}