{"id":33075,"date":"2023-03-23T12:17:41","date_gmt":"2023-03-23T19:17:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/?p=33075"},"modified":"2023-04-01T15:43:21","modified_gmt":"2023-04-01T22:43:21","slug":"rez-dogs-modders-women-oh-my","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/?p=33075","title":{"rendered":"Rez Dogs &#038; Modders &#038; Women, Oh My!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a title=\"A20ED228-254C-4E52-99AA-BA70A8BB4FDE\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/halfmind\/52764531012\/in\/dateposted-public\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/52764531012_89453e7dbc_n.jpg\" alt=\"A20ED228-254C-4E52-99AA-BA70A8BB4FDE\" width=\"240\" height=\"320\" \/><\/a>Our friend Mary Anne brought Anthony the rez dog by for a visit. If it looks like our pups were seeking safety in Donna&#8217;s lap and by my side, well, that&#8217;s pretty much what was going on. They love it when Anthony comes over, but after the initial round of sniffing and nose-touching they pull back. Poor Anthony &#8230; all he wants to do is roll around on the floor with his pals!<\/p>\n<p>Fritzi, the piebald dachshund on Donna&#8217;s lap, started showing valley fever symptoms again after the vet told us we could cut her fluconazole dosage in half. We put her back on a full dose and after two days she was back to normal and symptom-free. We&#8217;ve got her back on a half-dose again and are keeping a close eye on her. So far, so good. She should have nearly kicked valley fever by now. Lulu, the black &amp; tan, mostly has, and Mr. B, the brindle, has been free of it for months.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>I wrote about woman fighter pilots in my <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/?p=33066\">last post<\/a><\/strong>. Well, woman fighter pilots peeing, if you want to get technical, but that&#8217;s not why I&#8217;m thinking of them again. It&#8217;s the word &#8220;woman.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>When you say woman pilot or women pilots, it scans awkwardly. To say a pilot is a woman is one thing &#8230; it sounds and reads right &#8230; but to say a woman pilot did this or women pilots do that seems odd, not quite English as she is spoken. Shouldn&#8217;t it be &#8220;female pilot&#8221;? That&#8217;s the formula most (male) writers and speakers would use.<\/p>\n<p>My understanding is that most women &#8230; certainly the women I know &#8230; don&#8217;t much like people calling them females. And I agree. It rubs me wrong as well. Something about the word &#8220;female&#8221; conjures thoughts of chitinous exoskeletons, compound eyes, antennae, multiple pairs of jointed legs. So I&#8217;m forcing myself to get used to saying &#8220;woman pilot&#8221; until something better comes along. Like maybe the day when the simple word &#8220;pilot&#8221; will do.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><a title=\"91968D06-C9AF-4C09-88FF-C3E12E800DDD_1_201_a\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/halfmind\/52462810796\/in\/album-72177720303430078\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/52462810796_e8e8d24802_m.jpg\" alt=\"91968D06-C9AF-4C09-88FF-C3E12E800DDD_1_201_a\" width=\"240\" height=\"240\" \/><\/a>I&#8217;ve entrusted this watch, one of my favorite Seikos, to a friend, who&#8217;s going to do a minor modification to it. It&#8217;s on its way to him by UPS; if all goes well I&#8217;ll have before &amp; after photos to share in two or three weeks.<\/p>\n<p>A lot of collectors are into modifying and customizing wristwatches. They post photos of their work, polished and professional to my uneducated eye, on the watch forums I subscribe to. I wanted to tweak the appearance of this one, but didn&#8217;t have a warm &amp; fuzzy about mailing it off to a stranger &#8230; the same forums are full of stories and warnings about unscrupulous modders who&#8217;ll swap out your original movement with a cheaper one, and how would I, a babe in the woods when it comes to watch innards, ever know?<\/p>\n<p>But lucky me, I&#8217;ve known the guy I&#8217;m working with since he was 12 or 13. He&#8217;s in his 30s now, living and working in another city, but we&#8217;ve stayed in touch. A few months ago we discovered we both collected wristwatches and he told me he was getting into modding them. That&#8217;s the push I needed. I mustered the courage to ask if he&#8217;d do a small job on one of mine and he agreed. More soon.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>We signed on with a new dentist this morning. Last September, our dentist of 25 years told us he was no longer happy with our insurer, Delta Dental, and that henceforth we&#8217;d have to pay in full and up front for procedures. He&#8217;d still submit claims to Delta and refund the difference to us later, but what he was asking us to do wasn&#8217;t in our budget.<\/p>\n<p>Delta is, or was, the dental insurance of choice for military retirees and their families, so the letter came as a shock. I called his office and asked the lady who handles insurance and billing to recommend a plan they were willing to work with (I&#8217;m pretty sure those were my exact words). She said to go with a PPO (whatever the hell that is), and specifically recommended United Concordia.<\/p>\n<p>As a military retiree, I can only change dental insurance during a four-week window running from mid-November to mid-December. The day the window opened I switched from Delta to United Concordia PPO, meanwhile delaying scheduled cleanings for both of us to January 2023, when the new insurance would be in effect.<\/p>\n<p>Well. Turns out United Concordia does networks (Delta didn\u2019t, so it didn\u2019t \u00a0matter before). Our dentist, to our total surprise, is not in United Concordia&#8217;s network. And here&#8217;s how that works: I broke off part of a molar and unexpectedly had to have a crown installed in January, a $1,300 procedure, for which United Concordia covered only $250. Had my dentist been in network, UC would&#8217;ve paid more like $750. Why the lady in the office didn&#8217;t think to mention this to me when I called last year is a mystery.<\/p>\n<p>I now understand what the dentist really meant with that September 2022 letter. He was trying to shuck his military and fixed-income retiree patients to make room for a wealthier clientele.<\/p>\n<p>Mission fucking accomplished.<\/p>\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Poor Anthony &#8230; all he wants to do is roll around on the floor with his pals!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18,40,14,2,21],"tags":[4222,4053,4224,4225,4221,4223],"class_list":["post-33075","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-consumerism","category-critters","category-military","category-personal","category-words","tag-bewarethemodders","tag-bigseikolittledick-2","tag-missionaccomplished","tag-ourgreedydentist","tag-thesociallivesofdogs","tag-thewomengodblessthem"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33075","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=33075"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33075\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":33150,"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33075\/revisions\/33150"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=33075"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=33075"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=33075"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}