{"id":25143,"date":"2019-12-22T11:50:28","date_gmt":"2019-12-22T18:50:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/?p=25143"},"modified":"2019-12-22T11:50:28","modified_gmt":"2019-12-22T18:50:28","slug":"lighting-candles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/?p=25143","title":{"rendered":"Lighting Candles"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Donna got up early with the dogs, fed them,\u00a0then put Mister B back\u00a0under the covers with me. I crawled out of bed half an hour later, brushed my teeth, got dressed, grabbed a cup of coffee,\u00a0and\u00a0went into the home office to log on for news and email. An hour after leaving the bedroom, I heard a faint whine. It was Mister B\u00a0on\u00a0the bed, letting me know he was still there and wanted down. There&#8217;s no jumping off our bed &#8230; it&#8217;s far too high for dachshunds. They sell doggie ramps, I&#8217;m told. We really need to get one for the bedroom.<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday, Donna took the new kitchen\u00a0out on a shakedown cruise:<center><\/p>\n<table>\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td><a title=\"F6CE4F18-5A20-47EF-B75A-9B33DD90F6D2_1_201_a\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/halfmind\/49258174933\/in\/dateposted-public\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/49258174933_4de36cbfa9_n.jpg\" alt=\"F6CE4F18-5A20-47EF-B75A-9B33DD90F6D2_1_201_a\" width=\"320\" height=\"240\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<td><a title=\"B4D78DF5-7847-4CD3-822B-FBCF7F90C295\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/halfmind\/49258852357\/in\/dateposted-public\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/49258852357_32923cc4f1_n.jpg\" alt=\"B4D78DF5-7847-4CD3-822B-FBCF7F90C295\" width=\"320\" height=\"240\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p><\/center>That&#8217;s Donna&#8217;s friend Millie\u00a0and\u00a0her three great-granddaughters, making gingerbread houses. I&#8217;m glad I took the second photo when I did, because later the girls went a little crazy with the white frosting, covering up most of the colorful candy on the roofs and walls. But they had great fun. Meanwhile, Mister B and I settled into our little oasis of calm in the farthest corner of the family room. Contentment, with a whiff of holiday spirit.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"6A1C999F-336E-4D9B-8C4A-B18D90E466A0_1_201_a\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/halfmind\/49258851677\/in\/dateposted-public\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/49258851677_06e2a34d5f_z.jpg\" alt=\"6A1C999F-336E-4D9B-8C4A-B18D90E466A0_1_201_a\" width=\"640\" height=\"328\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ve invited a few friends to drop by Christmas Eve for a <a href=\"http:\/\/pwoodford.net\/cookblog\/?p=842\">shrimp boil<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/pwoodford.net\/cookblog\/?p=4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">clam chowder<\/a>, so the kitchen&#8217;s going to get another workout, this time at my hands. Donna announced this morning that keeping up with the house has become too much for her and she&#8217;s going to hire a housekeeper to come twice a month. I&#8217;m all for that, even though it forces us to face the fact that we&#8217;re easing into our assisted living years. But cleaning up for Christmas Eve company\u00a0is still on us, and I&#8217;m hoping Polly will pitch in and help today, since it&#8217;s one of her off days from Amazon\u00a0(update: no it&#8217;s not, so no help from the daughter).<\/p>\n<p>For some reason, right-wingers\u00a0cling to\u00a0the notion that saying &#8220;Merry Christmas&#8221; triggers pinkos like me. Funny, though, how you never hear Fox News\u00a0raging about the War on Hanukkah.\u00a0Hanukkah, this year, begins this evening and ends the evening of Monday\u00a0the 30th.\u00a0Christmas, of course, is technically just the one day, but in practice has become\u00a0a multi-day event, Christmas Eve through New Year&#8217;s Day. Granted six of those days are wholly secular, unlike Hanukkah, I&#8217;ve always been jealous of the Menorah candles, and wish Christians had a candle tradition for the days that wrap up one year and start another. I guess you could argue that the advent calendar is religious equivalent of the Festival of Lights, but I want candles too!<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, saying Merry Christmas triggers me not at all, nor does it trigger anyone I know.\u00a0This is the\u00a0charitable time of year, a time when nearly everyone is in a giving mood. And while the season is hard on some, for a variety of reasons, it&#8217;s a happy time for most of us, regardless of faith. I&#8217;m just saying it would be happier if we all had candles!<\/p>\n<p>If I don&#8217;t get back to you for a few days, Happy Hanukkah and Merry Christmas!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I guess you could argue that the advent calendar is religious equivalent of the Festival of Lights, but I want candles too!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18,15,40,250,2],"tags":[472,2961],"class_list":["post-25143","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-consumerism","category-cooking","category-critters","category-culture-wars","category-personal","tag-christmas","tag-hanukkah"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25143","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=25143"}],"version-history":[{"count":16,"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25143\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":25159,"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25143\/revisions\/25159"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=25143"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=25143"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pwoodford.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=25143"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}